With the talk of body positivity at an all-time high, it’s time to address the political battleground that is the human form.

In an era where the phrase “body positivity” is thrown around more than confetti, it’s high time we unpack the baggage that comes with the so-called celebration of our ‘human vessels’. The concept that came up as an apparent beacon of self-love and acceptance, has now morphed into a political battleground where societal norms, gender expectations, and well-intentioned fitness influencers collide, often leaving one struggling to overlap ideas of their perceived and ideal selves.

As the discussion about embracing imperfections reaches an all-time high, it’s essential to put on our metaphorical hard hats and navigate through the construction site of modern body discourse.

The Holy Gendering

In the sacred scriptures of societal norms, our bodies have been consistently gendered. It’s like we’re all walking, talking about LEGO  sets, just waiting for someone to pick the right pieces. Because, of course, if you don’t fit into the prescribed gender roles, you risk the wrath of the Gender Police, armed with glitter-infused tickets for non-compliance.

And who can forget the age-old debate: Should temples be designated male or female? Is it a yoga studio or a man cave? A spa or a she-shed? The struggle, my friends, is real.

Our bodies, within the context of societal norms, have long been subject to gendering, likened to customizable figures awaiting societal approval. This touches upon the broader topics of gender roles and identity.

Body Positivity or Body Politricks?

Let’s break down the ever-trendy concept of body positivity. It’s like the Instagram of self-love – filtered, curated, and not always as genuine as it seems. Embrace your stretch marks, they say. Love your cellulite, they say. But when every billboard for fitness, when every underwear model, when every ‘self care’ brand photoshops their models how does one embrace something that is clearly seen as a flaw. What about the stretch marks on my patience and the cellulite on my tolerance for unsolicited body advice?

For more on this, explore Beauty Myths Debunked.

My Body is a Temple… Of Political Discourse

In the grand arena of politics, our bodies come across as pawns in the game of power. It’s not about personal choice; it’s about who can legislate the best dress code for your temple. Because, you know, nothing says freedom like having someone else decide what you can and cannot do with your own sacred space. And they do so in a way blatantly disguised as choice. Where is the choice when we are all drowning in the capitalism of what will better promote our ability to love our bodies. 

So, as we navigate this complex landscape of gendering, body positivity, and political body discourse, let us remember, our bodies may be ‘temples’ but the onus of loving yourself is not entirely yours. We cannot bring about change while screaming at people to love themselves in a system that actively works against the very idea of being at peace with who you are.

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Childhood neglect is a term that we come across almost daily, be it through informational sources, conversations with our friends or sometimes viewing our childhood experiences from the same lens. It’s an experience levied with intense emotional suffering and has significant long-term repercussions.

Child neglect refers to a form of child abuse where a caregiver fails to provide the necessary care, supervision, and support that a child needs for their physical, emotional, and social development. Neglect can take different forms such as failing to provide adequate food, clothing, shelter, medical care, education, and emotional support. It can also involve leaving a child alone or unattended for extended periods, failing to protect a child from harm or danger, exposing a child to drug or alcohol abuse, or not providing appropriate supervision and care for a child with special needs.

Child neglect can have long-term effects on a child’s physical, emotional, cognitive, and social development. Here are some potential long-term effects of child neglect:

• Physical health problems: Children who experience neglect may be at risk of developing physical health problems, including malnutrition, stunted growth, chronic illnesses, and impaired brain development.
• Malnutrition: Neglected children may not receive adequate food or nutrition, leading to malnutrition. Malnutrition can result in stunted growth, a weakened immune system, and developmental delays.
• Poor hygiene: Neglected children may not receive proper hygiene, leading to poor dental hygiene, skin infections, and poor wound healing.
• Medical neglect: Neglected children may not receive proper medical care when they need it, leading to untreated medical conditions, infections, and injuries.
• Poor physical development: Neglected children may not have opportunities for physical activity or may not receive proper medical care, leading to poor physical development and health problems
• Mental health problems: Neglected children may also experience mental health problems such as depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They may also be at higher risk of developing substance abuse disorders and engaging in self-harming behaviours.
• Depression: Children who have been neglected may develop depression due to the lack of emotional support and care.
• Anxiety: Neglected children may develop anxiety due to the uncertainty and unpredictability of their situation.
• Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): Children who have experienced neglect may develop PTSD as a result of the trauma they have experienced.
• Attachment issues: Neglected children may struggle with forming healthy attachments to others due to the lack of consistent and caring relationships in their early years.
• Developmental delays: Children who have been neglected may experience delays in their physical, cognitive, and emotional development due to the lack of proper care and stimulation.
• Behavioural problems: Neglected children may display a range of behavioural problems, such as aggression, defiance, and hyperactivity.
• Substance abuse: Neglected children may be more likely to engage in substance abuse as a coping mechanism to deal with the trauma they have experienced
• Cognitive problems: Neglected children may experience developmental delays in cognitive skills, such as language, problem-solving, and social skills. They may also have difficulties in school and struggle to achieve academic success.
• Attention and Concentration problems: Children who experience neglect may struggle with paying attention and focusing on tasks, leading to difficulties in school and social situations.
• Memory problems: Neglected children may experience difficulties in retaining and recalling information, especially when it comes to complex or abstract concepts.
• Language and Communication difficulties: Neglected children may have trouble expressing themselves or understanding others due to limited exposure to language and lack of interaction with caregivers.
• Executive Functioning problems: Neglected children may have difficulties in planning, organizing, and executing tasks, leading to poor decision-making skills and impulsivity.
• Emotional Regulation issues: Neglected children may struggle to regulate their emotions, leading to mood swings, aggressive behaviour, and difficulty forming relationships.
• Social problems: Children who experience neglect may have difficulties forming healthy relationships with peers and adults, and may struggle with trust issues. They may also have problems with self-esteem and confidence.
• Poor academic performance: Neglected children often have difficulty concentrating, focusing and retaining information, which can lead to poor academic performance and low grades.
• Behavioural problems: Child neglect can lead to behavioural problems like aggression, disobedience, and lack of social skills, which can result in isolation and rejection from peers.
• Homelessness: Neglected children may be more likely to become homeless as adults, as they may not have the skills, resources, and support system to help them establish a stable living situation.
• Intergenerational cycles of neglect: Children who have been neglected are more likely to neglect their children, perpetuating a cycle of neglect and abuse.
• Behavioural problems: Neglected children may engage in risky behaviours, including substance abuse, sexual activity, and criminal activities. They may also have difficulties regulating their emotions and behaviours, leading to impulsive or aggressive behaviours.
• Criminal behaviour: Neglected children may be more susceptible to criminal behaviour, such as theft and violence, due to a lack of guidance and supervision.
• Aggression: Neglected children may develop aggressive behaviour due to a lack of emotional support and consistent discipline.
• Withdrawal: Neglected children may develop a tendency to withdraw from social interaction and may become detached and unresponsive.

It’s important to note that the effects of neglect can vary depending on the severity, duration, and age at which the neglect occurred, as well as other factors such as the child’s resilience and support systems. Early intervention and support can help mitigate some of the negative effects of neglect and improve outcomes for children. As caregivers, we must be able to provide our children with an emotionally safe and nurturing environment that fosters their development. Such a supportive environment would facilitate the child to function as a healthy being who would be compassionate and able to contribute productively towards the betterment of society.

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